Use One Bad Decision…

…as a stepping stone to do much better.

Take some time to be still… and think about how you can fix it, make it right, seek forgiveness (forgive yourself), and then turn it into a learning, strengthening lesson.

Face this and you will be ok.

One bad decision…

One mistake…

One bad thing happening to you…

Should not lead you down a road of (self) destruction… spiraling out of control.

Instead know in your heart and soul… this is a moment to prove to yourself and others (but especially yourself) who you are and who you want to be.

Be a person of character.

Be a person who falls down but gets back up.

Be a person who picks up others.

Be a person others can look up to.

Be a person of integrity.


And know your mistakes always have the potential to make you so much better than you were before.

Trust yourself.


~~I’m reminded of my character, Christy, in Touchable Love. She made many mistakes, and didn’t believe she deserved to be happy. Christy ran from everything good.

An unexpected job helped her learn to trust herself and face her past.

What can I say, I’m a sucker for the underdog. 😊

You Are Not A #Victim If You Have #Choices. So…

Reach out for help.

Accept help.

But don’t depend on others indefinitely.

If you can make changes without help, then do it.

You are in charge of YOUR life.

You are strong.

You are capable.

You might fall down, but get back up.

Keep getting back up.

Keep getting back up.

YOU can change your life.

Make it exactly the way you want it.

It takes a lot of HARD work.

But you will get there.

And you will look back and be thankful for the HARD work.

You will love the hard work.

You will LOVE the hard work.

Your life is yours.

You’re in control.

You decide.

You and you alone map out your life.

Don’t blame anybody else… this makes you weak.

Blame = weakness.

Taking responsibility = strength.

You are better and stronger than you realize.


Don’t Give Yourself, Your Life, Your Power, Or Your Freedom To Somebody Else

Don’t give your wonderful self away.

Don’t give your awesome life away.

Don’t give your incredible power away.

Don’t give your fabulous freedom away.

Stick up for yourself and everything that is important to you.

… and then love LOVE LOVE like crazy!!! 😋